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	<title>Comments on: Everyone Deserves a Second Chance&#8230;But What About a Third, Fourth Or Fifth?</title>
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	<description>The thoughts and experiences of Merrill Dubrow</description>
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		<title>By: Lucy Haydu</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lucy Haydu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2007 20:48:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am with Bill on this one, 3 strikes and you're out, unless bugs are involved, went to a restaurant many years ago and saw a large cockroach crawling on the wall, haven't gone back.  Regarding the cleaners, I too, use the drop off VIP service placing the clothes in the special green bag.  However, during the Holidays, I take a bottle of Champagne to Maria (she's the manager, from Vienna and loves Champagne) and I bring a large tin of Costco Cookies for the launders/pressers in the back room to share. I believe this small, simple and economical gesture of recognition is why they go above and beyond providing me with excellent customer service throughout the year. Show respect/appreciation, treat others the way you want to be treated, it'll come back tenfold. It's human nature in most cases.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am with Bill on this one, 3 strikes and you&#8217;re out, unless bugs are involved, went to a restaurant many years ago and saw a large cockroach crawling on the wall, haven&#8217;t gone back.  Regarding the cleaners, I too, use the drop off VIP service placing the clothes in the special green bag.  However, during the Holidays, I take a bottle of Champagne to Maria (she&#8217;s the manager, from Vienna and loves Champagne) and I bring a large tin of Costco Cookies for the launders/pressers in the back room to share. I believe this small, simple and economical gesture of recognition is why they go above and beyond providing me with excellent customer service throughout the year. Show respect/appreciation, treat others the way you want to be treated, it&#8217;ll come back tenfold. It&#8217;s human nature in most cases.</p>
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		<title>By: jamie ohler</title>
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		<dc:creator>jamie ohler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2007 18:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wellllll - I am a double Scorpio - those in the "know" will know that one should BEWARE when wronging me!  I used to give NO second chances - but I am older now - and I find that a second chance helps a lot.  Most important is to go up to the person to whom the chance matters and calmly explain what happened and tell them that the relationship - whatever it is - important to you - and you could just walk away and they would never know why they lost your business, but that you want to continue using them - (or going to their restaurant - as the case with me was) but they need to fix a few things... and then - if they don't change - they've been forewarned!  (That restaurant BTW - when I would walk in (it was Japanese) - the waitresses would mumble - "Ah - Ohler-san" - and then the owner would approach me and take my hand and bow and say "Hello Ohler-san".... I am convinced I had since put their kids through daycare with what we have spent there ..   :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wellllll - I am a double Scorpio - those in the &#8220;know&#8221; will know that one should BEWARE when wronging me!  I used to give NO second chances - but I am older now - and I find that a second chance helps a lot.  Most important is to go up to the person to whom the chance matters and calmly explain what happened and tell them that the relationship - whatever it is - important to you - and you could just walk away and they would never know why they lost your business, but that you want to continue using them - (or going to their restaurant - as the case with me was) but they need to fix a few things&#8230; and then - if they don&#8217;t change - they&#8217;ve been forewarned!  (That restaurant BTW - when I would walk in (it was Japanese) - the waitresses would mumble - &#8220;Ah - Ohler-san&#8221; - and then the owner would approach me and take my hand and bow and say &#8220;Hello Ohler-san&#8221;&#8230;. I am convinced I had since put their kids through daycare with what we have spent there ..   <img src='http://www.marcresearch.com/blogs/merrill/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Bill Neal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bill Neal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2007 16:47:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, life is a trade-off. I like to live by the baseball rule - three strikes and you are out. That was three strikes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, life is a trade-off. I like to live by the baseball rule - three strikes and you are out. That was three strikes.</p>
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		<title>By: Vic Walsh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vic Walsh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2007 16:36:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Probably everyone has similar war stories to tell, but in spite of all of the hassle you received, it would still be a good idea to go back and pay the $12 you had not been charged.  No one is perfect, especially in a service industry, but that simple act would keep you with the upper hand.  Then go change dry cleaners!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Probably everyone has similar war stories to tell, but in spite of all of the hassle you received, it would still be a good idea to go back and pay the $12 you had not been charged.  No one is perfect, especially in a service industry, but that simple act would keep you with the upper hand.  Then go change dry cleaners!</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Dawson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Dawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2007 00:42:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For 15 years I went to the same dry cleaners EVERY Saturday, and they
asked the same questions every week, my name and phone number;
they had no clue who I was.
Along comes a new owner, and on his first week on the job, they lose my
husband's brand new golf shirt that I paid too much money to begin with.
I was not happy. They promised to look for it, and check back the following week; of course they never found it.  The new owner stepped up to the plate, pulled out a wad of cash from his pocket and asked me what I wanted?  I asked the full price of the shirt $ 75.00.  From that week on, Mr. New Owner, called ME BY NAME as if I was someone important. So here's a company who took a bad situation and turned me into a raving fan. He would had my business for life if we stayed in Boston.  Merrill, I'd say it's time you found a new dry cleaner; you don't need the aggravation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For 15 years I went to the same dry cleaners EVERY Saturday, and they<br />
asked the same questions every week, my name and phone number;<br />
they had no clue who I was.<br />
Along comes a new owner, and on his first week on the job, they lose my<br />
husband&#8217;s brand new golf shirt that I paid too much money to begin with.<br />
I was not happy. They promised to look for it, and check back the following week; of course they never found it.  The new owner stepped up to the plate, pulled out a wad of cash from his pocket and asked me what I wanted?  I asked the full price of the shirt $ 75.00.  From that week on, Mr. New Owner, called ME BY NAME as if I was someone important. So here&#8217;s a company who took a bad situation and turned me into a raving fan. He would had my business for life if we stayed in Boston.  Merrill, I&#8217;d say it&#8217;s time you found a new dry cleaner; you don&#8217;t need the aggravation.</p>
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		<title>By: Paul Kirch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul Kirch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jul 2007 15:03:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had a button coming loose on a suit jacket.  I went to my dry cleaner and asked them to repair it.  I was getting ready to leave on a business trip and stopped by the dry cleaners to pick up my suit.  Instead of trying it on, I packed the jacket in my suitcase.  Once I got to my destination, I put on the pants and jacket along with a dress shirt an tie.  I arrived at the meeting and went to button the top two buttons.  I noticed that the button they repaired had been moved about 2 inches up toward the top button.  Therefore, it no longer could be buttoned properly.  I wore it open and figured no one would notice.  I did get paranoid when I felt someone was staring at it, though they mentioned nothing.  I took the jacket back when I returned home.  I used the drive through service and explained what had happened.  The person assured me it would be fixed.  When I picked it up, I had a ton of clothes and didn't really even remember the issue.  As I prepared to go on another trip, I was grabbing a couple of suits and happened to pick this one up and put it in my suitcase, forgetting about the button issue.  Sure enough, I got to my destination and discovered that they had not fixed the issue.  Once again, I wore it open.  On the third time back, they finally made the appropriate repair and did not charge me.  I learned a valuable lesson to double check, any special requests (stain removal, button, mending, etc...)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a button coming loose on a suit jacket.  I went to my dry cleaner and asked them to repair it.  I was getting ready to leave on a business trip and stopped by the dry cleaners to pick up my suit.  Instead of trying it on, I packed the jacket in my suitcase.  Once I got to my destination, I put on the pants and jacket along with a dress shirt an tie.  I arrived at the meeting and went to button the top two buttons.  I noticed that the button they repaired had been moved about 2 inches up toward the top button.  Therefore, it no longer could be buttoned properly.  I wore it open and figured no one would notice.  I did get paranoid when I felt someone was staring at it, though they mentioned nothing.  I took the jacket back when I returned home.  I used the drive through service and explained what had happened.  The person assured me it would be fixed.  When I picked it up, I had a ton of clothes and didn&#8217;t really even remember the issue.  As I prepared to go on another trip, I was grabbing a couple of suits and happened to pick this one up and put it in my suitcase, forgetting about the button issue.  Sure enough, I got to my destination and discovered that they had not fixed the issue.  Once again, I wore it open.  On the third time back, they finally made the appropriate repair and did not charge me.  I learned a valuable lesson to double check, any special requests (stain removal, button, mending, etc&#8230;)</p>
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