I get asked often how I pick the topics for my postings. For me it has come very easy, just writing about life. Whether it is experiences I have had, things that don’t make sense or goofy things that everyone notices or does. When I come up with a topic it goes into a draft folder and then when I am ready to write a few posts I look in there and the rest is history. As I write this post I have over 80 topics in my draft folder.
The reason I am telling you this boring story is this posting has been in my draft folder for a very long time. For whatever reason I thought the time was right to toss it out there.
Since I have been at M/A/R/C one of my colleagues (TA) has accused me of having a man crush on someone. At first I didn’t even know what that was, so I needed to look it up. In doing so, one of the definitions of a Man Crush is when a straight man has a "crush" on another man, not sexual but kind of idolizing him.
The question is, do most guys have a Man Crush on someone? I have never had this discussion with my buddies so I gave it some thought.
If I had a Man Crush on someone who might it be?
- Would it be a successful business person?
- Would it be an athlete?
- Would it be an actor?
I think for me it could be anyone who is successful, thoughtful, creative, giving, different, good looking and is at the top of their game. So the question is who fits that criteria? The few names that came to mind were Jimmy Connors and Johnny Damon. Both of them are winners in my book and are characters. Both appear to be fun loving and really love life. Ok I said it. I think I have a Man Crush on Jimmy Connors and Johnny Damon.
Alright guys, your turn.
- Do you have a Man Crush on someone?
- If so who is it?
- Is your definition of a Man Crush different than the one I tossed out there?
So who is it? Brad Pitt? George Clooney?
You tell me!
I look forward to your comments.


Stephenie Gordon says:
I have a man crush on Josh Duhamel. oh wait, it’s just a crush… He’s on my Top 3 and that’s a whole different story and would make a very interesting blog…
On to the real topic, Women can have a “Woman Crush” too you know! Don’t leave us out of this one!
Mark Sutin says:
How about Marcus Buckingham. To know him is to love.
Very dynamic, Intelligent and the best motivational speaker I have ever heard.
Merrill is a close second…..love that mustache
Chris Hauck says:
Dude – it’s you!
Ed Sugar says:
Jimmy Connors?
Johnny Damon?
Carrot Top must be seething with jealousy.
Merrill Dubrow says:
Ed,
You are right – he already called me this morning and stressed how upset he is with me!
Hope you had a nice holiday.
Merrill
Lisa S says:
Don’t let TA give you a hard time, Merrill…knowing him, I bet he has a few man crushes himself. Tony Romo and Dirk Nowitzki perhaps?
Merrill Dubrow says:
Lisa,
I think you are probably right and perhaps Roger Staubach as well.
Thanks.
Merrill
TA says:
No need to guess or bet…it’s Colin Farrell
Merrill Dubrow says:
TA,
I am proud of you for admitting it!
Merrill
Paul Metzger says:
Mine’s Paul Teutul Sr. He only hung the moon-that’s all.
Merrill Dubrow says:
Justin Timberlake was on ESPN Sportscenter this morning and was asked 10 questions and one was who do you have a man crsuh on – his answer Lebron James.
Merrill