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		<title>By: Kelly Heatly</title>
		<link>http://www.marcresearch.com/blogs/merrill/2009/06/24/brush-with-fame-what-do-you-do/#comment-73684</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly Heatly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 03:39:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m late replying but what a fun topic!  My reaction to a celebrity is driven by what the celebrity is doing.  Most of the time, when you see them doing day-to-day stuff like flying on an airplane, it seems they just want to be left alone.  I sat behind Adrian Grenier recently on a plane.  He looked like he had just rolled out of bed after a long night of partying (but still gorgeous), so I wasn&#039;t about to bother the guy even though I&#039;m a big fan of Entourage.  

I find I&#039;m far less obnoxious the older I get.  After all, celebrities are just people like you and me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m late replying but what a fun topic!  My reaction to a celebrity is driven by what the celebrity is doing.  Most of the time, when you see them doing day-to-day stuff like flying on an airplane, it seems they just want to be left alone.  I sat behind Adrian Grenier recently on a plane.  He looked like he had just rolled out of bed after a long night of partying (but still gorgeous), so I wasn&#8217;t about to bother the guy even though I&#8217;m a big fan of Entourage.  </p>
<p>I find I&#8217;m far less obnoxious the older I get.  After all, celebrities are just people like you and me.</p>
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		<title>By: Bob Graham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Graham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:34:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I related my encounter with Dr J in an earlier post.

Once while crossing 5th Avenue at 40th St in NYC around 1980, I noticed that Richard Nixon was crossing (alone) from the other side.  I was never a big fan of his and my first instinct was to launch a tirade of criticism, but I just smiled and said &quot;Hello, Mr President&quot;.  He nodded, smiled and said &quot;Hello.&quot; back.  My opinion of him has certainly mellowed over the years.

My biggest brush with fame was in Dallas when Kevin McCarthy was interviewing Vincent Price on his radio show.  I am a huge fan of Vincent Price (I grew up watching his great horror films) and feverishly dialed over and over trying to get in the queue to talk with him.  Finally, I made it in and when I spoke to him, I told him what a big fan I was and how I thought he had been robbed of an Academy Award nomination for &quot;Whales of August&quot;.  &quot;Why thank you, Bob.&quot; he replied and then it hit me: VINCENT PRICE JUST CALLED ME &quot;BOB&quot;!!!! as if we had been friends for a long time!  Holy ****!

ps.  Ruthann, I do need to make a correction. &quot;Cuba&quot; was a film starring Sean Connery and directed by Richard Lester.  The film you are referring to (starring Robert Redford and directed by Sydney Pollack) is &quot;Havana&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I related my encounter with Dr J in an earlier post.</p>
<p>Once while crossing 5th Avenue at 40th St in NYC around 1980, I noticed that Richard Nixon was crossing (alone) from the other side.  I was never a big fan of his and my first instinct was to launch a tirade of criticism, but I just smiled and said &#8220;Hello, Mr President&#8221;.  He nodded, smiled and said &#8220;Hello.&#8221; back.  My opinion of him has certainly mellowed over the years.</p>
<p>My biggest brush with fame was in Dallas when Kevin McCarthy was interviewing Vincent Price on his radio show.  I am a huge fan of Vincent Price (I grew up watching his great horror films) and feverishly dialed over and over trying to get in the queue to talk with him.  Finally, I made it in and when I spoke to him, I told him what a big fan I was and how I thought he had been robbed of an Academy Award nomination for &#8220;Whales of August&#8221;.  &#8220;Why thank you, Bob.&#8221; he replied and then it hit me: VINCENT PRICE JUST CALLED ME &#8220;BOB&#8221;!!!! as if we had been friends for a long time!  Holy ****!</p>
<p>ps.  Ruthann, I do need to make a correction. &#8220;Cuba&#8221; was a film starring Sean Connery and directed by Richard Lester.  The film you are referring to (starring Robert Redford and directed by Sydney Pollack) is &#8220;Havana&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another interesting exchange with a celebrity - I volunteered on a political campaign.  My candidate was accused of having support from the &quot;Hollywood crowd&quot;.  So I asked her, &quot;Well, do you?&quot; and she said &quot;No, but if you know anyone, please let me know.&quot;  I went online to &quot;contactanycelebrity.com&quot; where you can get contact info for press agents and managers.  Within a few days I was on the phone with a variety of Hollywood agents and managers.

Ed Asner&#039;s assistant was particularly helpful and hooked us up to a number of Ed&#039;s friends.  One afternoon I got a call from Eliott Gould.  That was pretty cool.  Alec Baldwin was another story. And Shelly Berman (do you remember Shelly Berman) was a lot of fun.

We lost the election anyway, but I wanted to call Ed&#039;s assistant and thank her for her help.  When I did, I was surprised when a man answered.  So I asked, &quot;Is this Ed?&quot; and he said, &quot;Yeah, who is this?&quot;  That led to an hour conversation about politics and life.  If you can imagine an hour on the phone with Lou Grant, that was exactly what it was like.  He was very personable and uncensored.

Later he was visiting locally for a hospital fundraiser and we got to ride in the limo with him to the event.  That is another story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another interesting exchange with a celebrity &#8211; I volunteered on a political campaign.  My candidate was accused of having support from the &#8220;Hollywood crowd&#8221;.  So I asked her, &#8220;Well, do you?&#8221; and she said &#8220;No, but if you know anyone, please let me know.&#8221;  I went online to &#8220;contactanycelebrity.com&#8221; where you can get contact info for press agents and managers.  Within a few days I was on the phone with a variety of Hollywood agents and managers.</p>
<p>Ed Asner&#8217;s assistant was particularly helpful and hooked us up to a number of Ed&#8217;s friends.  One afternoon I got a call from Eliott Gould.  That was pretty cool.  Alec Baldwin was another story. And Shelly Berman (do you remember Shelly Berman) was a lot of fun.</p>
<p>We lost the election anyway, but I wanted to call Ed&#8217;s assistant and thank her for her help.  When I did, I was surprised when a man answered.  So I asked, &#8220;Is this Ed?&#8221; and he said, &#8220;Yeah, who is this?&#8221;  That led to an hour conversation about politics and life.  If you can imagine an hour on the phone with Lou Grant, that was exactly what it was like.  He was very personable and uncensored.</p>
<p>Later he was visiting locally for a hospital fundraiser and we got to ride in the limo with him to the event.  That is another story.</p>
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		<title>By: Lynn Stalone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lynn Stalone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I was a kid, we had great season tickets to the Lakers and I often went to the games with my dad.  Over the years, I had the opportunity to meet Jerry West and Wilt Chamberlain, as well as many of the other players - that was very cool.  The players were always good about talking to kids before and after the games.

The most famous person I have met is Robert Duvall.  I was in Chicago at dinner with clients about 15 years ago when Mr.Duvall was seated across from us.  It was pretty late and the restaurant was very empty.  He was with a younger man - could have been a son or nephew and they were having a lively discussion.  My two clients proceeded to get up, go over to his table and sit down with Mr. Duvall and his guest.  I was completely mortified.  Despite the fact that he is one of my all-time favorite actors, I could never have imposed in that way.  He was very generous and talked with them for about 15 minutes - until I finally came over and said our taxi was waiting (a convenient lie to get them out of there).  I thanked him and told him it was an honor to meet him.  He shook my hand, smiled and winked at me, which was very sweet.  A true gentleman!!

Another class act - may be a surprise - Anna Faris.  My daughter went to the NY premier of House Bunny.  Anna Faris was so kind and giving of her time to all of the girls, allowed them to take multiple photos, gave autographs and was very down to earth.  She did not have to take the time to actually talk with the girls, but did so, answering their questions about making the movie, working in Hollywood and other silly teenager things.

I saw Dean Koontz in our local bookstore several years ago.  I was actually in the store buying his newest book when the owner flagged me down and said to go over and ask him to sign it (&quot;he will always sign a book when he is here&quot;).  I still didn&#039;t go over and bother him.  

In general, I just feel that everyone deserves their privacy when they are going about their day-to-day business.  However, it is part of the job as a celebrity to be graceful in public, so I see nothing wrong with telling someone you are a fan, asking for an autograph or shaking a hand in the appropriate situation.  I object to getting in someone&#039;s personal space or interjecting yourself into their situation when it is clearly not desired.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was a kid, we had great season tickets to the Lakers and I often went to the games with my dad.  Over the years, I had the opportunity to meet Jerry West and Wilt Chamberlain, as well as many of the other players &#8211; that was very cool.  The players were always good about talking to kids before and after the games.</p>
<p>The most famous person I have met is Robert Duvall.  I was in Chicago at dinner with clients about 15 years ago when Mr.Duvall was seated across from us.  It was pretty late and the restaurant was very empty.  He was with a younger man &#8211; could have been a son or nephew and they were having a lively discussion.  My two clients proceeded to get up, go over to his table and sit down with Mr. Duvall and his guest.  I was completely mortified.  Despite the fact that he is one of my all-time favorite actors, I could never have imposed in that way.  He was very generous and talked with them for about 15 minutes &#8211; until I finally came over and said our taxi was waiting (a convenient lie to get them out of there).  I thanked him and told him it was an honor to meet him.  He shook my hand, smiled and winked at me, which was very sweet.  A true gentleman!!</p>
<p>Another class act &#8211; may be a surprise &#8211; Anna Faris.  My daughter went to the NY premier of House Bunny.  Anna Faris was so kind and giving of her time to all of the girls, allowed them to take multiple photos, gave autographs and was very down to earth.  She did not have to take the time to actually talk with the girls, but did so, answering their questions about making the movie, working in Hollywood and other silly teenager things.</p>
<p>I saw Dean Koontz in our local bookstore several years ago.  I was actually in the store buying his newest book when the owner flagged me down and said to go over and ask him to sign it (&#8220;he will always sign a book when he is here&#8221;).  I still didn&#8217;t go over and bother him.  </p>
<p>In general, I just feel that everyone deserves their privacy when they are going about their day-to-day business.  However, it is part of the job as a celebrity to be graceful in public, so I see nothing wrong with telling someone you are a fan, asking for an autograph or shaking a hand in the appropriate situation.  I object to getting in someone&#8217;s personal space or interjecting yourself into their situation when it is clearly not desired.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A few years ago I had a conference in Washington, D.C.   A man sat next to me and for most of the flight we did not talk.  Then about 15 minutes before we landed I asked him if he was going to D.C. for business or pleasure?  He said &quot;Business.&quot; I asked him if he was from D.C. and he said, &quot;No, I&#039;m from Oregon, but I work in D.C.&quot;  So, I asked, &quot;What do you do?&quot;  And he said, &quot;I&#039;m in the Senate.&quot;  it turns out that I had been sitting next to Ron Wyden, Senator from Oregon.  

I wish I had spoken to him an hour earlier.  It would have been interesting to have an hour to chat with a Senator.  As it was we only had 15 minutes, but that was interesting too. 

If I lived in Oregon, I would vote for him.  Any Senator who flies coach is OK in my book.   He is author of the &quot;Airline Passenger Fairness Act&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few years ago I had a conference in Washington, D.C.   A man sat next to me and for most of the flight we did not talk.  Then about 15 minutes before we landed I asked him if he was going to D.C. for business or pleasure?  He said &#8220;Business.&#8221; I asked him if he was from D.C. and he said, &#8220;No, I&#8217;m from Oregon, but I work in D.C.&#8221;  So, I asked, &#8220;What do you do?&#8221;  And he said, &#8220;I&#8217;m in the Senate.&#8221;  it turns out that I had been sitting next to Ron Wyden, Senator from Oregon.  </p>
<p>I wish I had spoken to him an hour earlier.  It would have been interesting to have an hour to chat with a Senator.  As it was we only had 15 minutes, but that was interesting too. </p>
<p>If I lived in Oregon, I would vote for him.  Any Senator who flies coach is OK in my book.   He is author of the &#8220;Airline Passenger Fairness Act&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Matt Gershner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt Gershner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:32:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Having started my career in sports and entertainment, in addition to living in NYC, I think I&#039;m at the point where running into celebrities doesn&#039;t do anything for me. I get enough of them on the news everyday - and it&#039;s usually not very positive.

That being said, of those I&#039;ve interacted with, Hugh Jackman, Jimmy Fallon and Al Roker impressed me as the most down-to-earth nice people I have met - celebrity or not.

However there is one standout.  While working a movie premiere many years ago, I had the occasion to have a conversation with Walter Cronkite that I still marvel over.  My dad, who it seems gave up on pop culture in his 20&#039;s was impressed when I shared the story with him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having started my career in sports and entertainment, in addition to living in NYC, I think I&#8217;m at the point where running into celebrities doesn&#8217;t do anything for me. I get enough of them on the news everyday &#8211; and it&#8217;s usually not very positive.</p>
<p>That being said, of those I&#8217;ve interacted with, Hugh Jackman, Jimmy Fallon and Al Roker impressed me as the most down-to-earth nice people I have met &#8211; celebrity or not.</p>
<p>However there is one standout.  While working a movie premiere many years ago, I had the occasion to have a conversation with Walter Cronkite that I still marvel over.  My dad, who it seems gave up on pop culture in his 20&#8242;s was impressed when I shared the story with him.</p>
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		<title>By: chris hauck</title>
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		<dc:creator>chris hauck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:17:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do have another one.  A really good friend of mine is one of George Clooney&#039;s best friends.  He talks a lot about their friendship as George was the one who became really big in their group while most everyone else did OK but were never really big.  It sounds like a fascinating and very challenging life.  My friend explained to me one night that the paparazzi really work all the friends and that they are very tricky about it.  they start by acting as legitimate press getting the target friend to talk about their most recent projects and then they very slowly start getting them to loosen up and reveal some morsel about the star.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do have another one.  A really good friend of mine is one of George Clooney&#8217;s best friends.  He talks a lot about their friendship as George was the one who became really big in their group while most everyone else did OK but were never really big.  It sounds like a fascinating and very challenging life.  My friend explained to me one night that the paparazzi really work all the friends and that they are very tricky about it.  they start by acting as legitimate press getting the target friend to talk about their most recent projects and then they very slowly start getting them to loosen up and reveal some morsel about the star.</p>
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		<title>By: Malcolm Williamson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Malcolm Williamson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 17:51:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I worked as a doorman at the largest hotel on the west coast while putting myself through college.
It was probably the best job anyone could ever ask for.
You meet thousands of people per day and really hone your skills.
Long story short, in 5 years I have probably met thousands of celebs.
I treat them the same as the folks who have saved for years to take their family on a dream vacation.
Actually the regular folks are much better.
The only one&#039;s who matter are those who give back, and there aren&#039;t too many these days who are doing that.
The rest are pretty much a waste of space.
Especially the pro athletes.
However, I did swim master&#039;s swim yesterday with Terry Armstrong (Lance Armstrong&#039;s father).
That was pretty cool.  He&#039;s an animal in the pool!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I worked as a doorman at the largest hotel on the west coast while putting myself through college.<br />
It was probably the best job anyone could ever ask for.<br />
You meet thousands of people per day and really hone your skills.<br />
Long story short, in 5 years I have probably met thousands of celebs.<br />
I treat them the same as the folks who have saved for years to take their family on a dream vacation.<br />
Actually the regular folks are much better.<br />
The only one&#8217;s who matter are those who give back, and there aren&#8217;t too many these days who are doing that.<br />
The rest are pretty much a waste of space.<br />
Especially the pro athletes.<br />
However, I did swim master&#8217;s swim yesterday with Terry Armstrong (Lance Armstrong&#8217;s father).<br />
That was pretty cool.  He&#8217;s an animal in the pool!</p>
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		<title>By: chris hauck</title>
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		<dc:creator>chris hauck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 17:50:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve run into celebrities a few times.  Sometimes it is fun and sometimes not.  I ran into Ethan Hawke at the admiral&#039;s club at LAX while he was throwing a huge fit and then again at a Texas Rangers Game with his kids.  different day, different guy.  I was with a couple of people when we ran into Gene Hackman at the Met in NYC.  One guy in my group felt the need to tell him how big a fan he was.  Gene was great, but then we kept running into him on the street so he probably though Jaime was stalking him.  I ran into the  Williams sisters on a flight and they were both really sweet.  I personally never talk to celebrities when I run into them, I&#039;m shy and I know they want their space.  So I&#039;m just really nice to them like I am with everyone.  I don&#039;t treat them any differently and I think they appreciate that.  

My best was that I used to go to 6am mass as a high school kid and when the Dolphins were in town I used to sit next to Don Shula occasionally.  Which means that when the priest says....Please offer a greeting of peace to the people around you, I got to shake his hand on game day.  He liked to sit in the back just like me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve run into celebrities a few times.  Sometimes it is fun and sometimes not.  I ran into Ethan Hawke at the admiral&#8217;s club at LAX while he was throwing a huge fit and then again at a Texas Rangers Game with his kids.  different day, different guy.  I was with a couple of people when we ran into Gene Hackman at the Met in NYC.  One guy in my group felt the need to tell him how big a fan he was.  Gene was great, but then we kept running into him on the street so he probably though Jaime was stalking him.  I ran into the  Williams sisters on a flight and they were both really sweet.  I personally never talk to celebrities when I run into them, I&#8217;m shy and I know they want their space.  So I&#8217;m just really nice to them like I am with everyone.  I don&#8217;t treat them any differently and I think they appreciate that.  </p>
<p>My best was that I used to go to 6am mass as a high school kid and when the Dolphins were in town I used to sit next to Don Shula occasionally.  Which means that when the priest says&#8230;.Please offer a greeting of peace to the people around you, I got to shake his hand on game day.  He liked to sit in the back just like me.</p>
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		<title>By: Merrill Dubrow</title>
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		<dc:creator>Merrill Dubrow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stephenie,

Wow - Michael Jordon and JR Reid. Clearly two superstars from UNC. You should have taken R up on his offer and never cashed his checks!

Thanks for your comments.

Merrill</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stephenie,</p>
<p>Wow &#8211; Michael Jordon and JR Reid. Clearly two superstars from UNC. You should have taken R up on his offer and never cashed his checks!</p>
<p>Thanks for your comments.</p>
<p>Merrill</p>
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